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important things: cole looking over at gabe with panic in his eyes when everyone starts speaking spanish

September 29thvia and source with 90 notes

Sorry but I've seen more ugliness come out from tumblr in the last few days than I ever saw come from Dalton's. Not following your hypocritical logic. You say it's your blog and you can write whatever you want, but he can't? I just don't get it. He's not allowed to have a bad day or react to the hateful comments, but you CAN? He may be famous but you don't get to dehumanize him for entertainment. He is actually a real person, just like you. Maybe he just wants to play music, not deal w/this. —Anonymous

im assuming there is supposed to be a *your in that first sentence there hunny

Nah son, never been talking about hate. You can react to hate in any way you want. Its the reasonable questions with the as of yet unjustified snark that get to me. not once have made an example of him reacting to hate. so idk where that came from but ok w/e.

and i never dehumanised him. for fucks sake, i’m sharing a fucking opinion and advising people to not fall into the pitfalls of hero-worship. that is all. I don’t find it entertaining, I find it irritating.

And as so far Dalton doesnt have to deal with this because this? this is my opinion. 

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you slay girl xx —Anonymous

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I'm sorry but actually YOU are being the ass. Just because Dalton is a musician doesn't mean he's supposed to live up to whatever standards you've set. He's an 18 yr old singer/songwriter not a therapist. I know him personally and he's a good guy. If you want to trash a public figure, go harass Nash Grier who writes hateful and hurtful crap every day intentionally. But, of course, then you'd be drowned out in a sea of voices and you wouldn't get the attention I suspect you're enjoying for this. —Anonymous

Okay so I’m going to say this once, just once. And then I am going to go and turn off anon so that you have to confront me without the cowardice of anon to hid behind.

1. I am a major asshole. pretty much what I’ve been saying all along. MAJOR ASSHOLE

2. not my standards. Industry standards. also: I’m allowed to have an opinion. So are you. You don’t see me sending these sort of messages to get mine out there though do you? Just because you don’t agree with me doesn’t mean you get to be hateful.

3. not a therapist?? ok when did i ask for therapy wth

4. don’t need the attention. don’t need none of this crap. my blog, i can post whatever the fuck i want.


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P.S I hope I'm not making you hate me, and I don't hate you at all, I mean your opinion is completely valid and I still love your blog, I just found your argument perplexing :) —sociallyawkwardchick

I actually really appreciate that you want to talk about it, like srsly thankyou so much for engaging me on this!! I guess it kind of is. I have reasons to have judgement that I have been asked not to share, and I wont betray that, so sometimes it makes it difficult to explain my arguments and opinions without bringing that into it.  

but still, thank you so very much for engaging me in this, I really enjoy sharing with people and listening to them in turn. 

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That's just the impression I got from your posts by calling him an asshole. How do you call someone an asshole only in the context of one post? They're either an asshole or not. If you took the time to write all that, it gives the impression that you have some sort of disdain towards him. And also I suppose you figured out that Dalton's humor is a bit darker than you may have previously believed reflecting on some of his answers, but none of them were unrightfully rude. They were jokes (cntd..) —sociallyawkwardchick

I can call someone an asshole in the context of one post as I am referring specifically to that post. There are plenty of things that I 100% agree and support Dalton doing, its just I dont shout them out the way that I do with the negative ones. Maybe thats not right of me, maybe it is, but there are enough people shouting his praises so I dont feel the need to do it myself. That is why my blog appears negative, because I let the good things speak for themselves. 

tl;dr, i don’t think suicide jokes are funny, be they unintentional or not. should have been handled better. I don’t hate him. and thats what you missed on glee. 

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Also I hope you haven't been getting too much hate for what you said, I mean you ARE entitled to your opinions. But just be careful what you post in the tags. I know you're intending for a lot of people to see it, but a lot of people DONT want to see it. Telling people they're wrong or idolizing someone aimlessly RARELY gets people to see the truth. I'm just letting you know for future reference? Take care. —sociallyawkwardchick

Ok, yeah, you’ve got a point there. I am a huge asshole in the tags bc i think nobody reads them. probably should stop that. I dont want to tell anyone that they are wrong for idolising someone though, I just want to make sure that they are aware of the dangers of doing so and that they are safe and happy

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Hey darlin, I'm not hating I swear and idc if you publish this or not. But I saw your post on Dalton (and IM5 I guess), and I was really curious as to why you dislike him so much. I mean concrete evidence. I get you don't like Dalton, but I don't have a reason to as far as I know. I've explicitly said this before, but if Dalton fucked up badly (and I don't mean he made a mistake, but if he FUCKED UP I wouldn't support that blindly. I was hoping you'd point me to solid proof for your arguments? —sociallyawkwardchick

Why does everyone think I dislike him???!! I dont know him???!!! He doesn’t know me!!??? I think he is a fantastic performer, and a lousy publicist. there, that is my opinions. Oh! and that he has too much influence over young girls, but that isnt his fault. 

As for concrete evidence, see the previously answered question. 

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